Wednesday, 08 July 2009

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  So yesterday I went to go see Benny to watch the "10 things I hate about you" TV show, We did and poked out all the horrible details of how this show ruined the movie. Zev talked computers with Benny's Hubby and his cousin. After, Zev and I headed out to go back home and talked all the way. After a few hours, I got home and charged my cellphone and turned it back on, so it beeps and tells me I have 4 txt messeges. It was benny, did I forget anything? So I called her back. She greeted me nicely and said how much fun she had.. but apparently while she and I had been having a good time, Zev had been quite rude to zev and his younger cousin. Her husband then got on the phone with me and said in his most curtious mannor that they would love to have me come back over, but Zev was not welcome in thier home. Apparently Zev had talked down to them…and Im sure he didn’t mean to sound horrid. But that is how Benny’s Hubby took it.
  
  So, now I need to talk with Zev and tell him the situation without him feeling like I am attacking him. I know he didn’t mean to hurt anyone, but just like myself, Zev doesn’t always know the best way to say what he means. Most of the time he comes of rude, but I know him better than that. I know that he didn’t want to seem rude, he is just very critical and opinionated and doesn’t always think about the way he is being presented.
  
  Now is the time that I really need to think about my words … before I make either party look weird. I think Benny’s Husband is looking for an apology, but somehow I don’t think Zev is going to understand what he needs to apologize for. *sighs* I understand Zev enough to know that what he said to Benny’s Hubby(Brian) , was only trying to help Brian understand a process of his goal.
  
  I wasn’t there for their conversation, but I know Zev would never purposefully try and make someone feel as bad as Brian felt. I tried to talk to Brian about it – and once again he was very courteous to me, but expressed that he is not appreciative of Zev’s demeanor and mannerisms.
  
  I love Zev very much, I just wish other people understood him like I do.

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